jonesier1
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| posted on 13/8/09 at 09:00 PM |
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child maintenance advise
just had a barny with my ex over the kids.im having them for the next two weeks and asked to stop my payments to help me out but she wont
agree.it's a private agreement between us and i have a standing order.am i right or is this normally calculated for and averaged out over the
year ?also does she have to declare this to anyone,ie benefits office etc.I know its a mine field.thanks
im in my own little world...its ok though they know me there
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coozer
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| posted on 13/8/09 at 09:25 PM |
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Next time you have a barny, call the police and tell them she threaten you, stop the cash then when the CSA call up tell them about it and you
won't hear anything...
My ex's new husband had a go at me and I told my CSA person, that was it, never heard another thing until my lovely son tried to stab me....
1972 V8 Jago
1980 Z750
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omega0684
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| posted on 14/8/09 at 11:18 AM |
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quote:
Originally posted by coozer
never heard another thing until my lovely son tried to stab me....
WTF!!!!!!
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Mr Whippy
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| posted on 14/8/09 at 02:32 PM |
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quote:
Originally posted by omega0684
quote:
Originally posted by coozer
never heard another thing until my lovely son tried to stab me....
WTF!!!!!!
quite...that doesn't sound too good
Fame is when your old car is plastered all over the internet
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Ninehigh
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| posted on 15/8/09 at 09:45 AM |
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Child maintenance is supposed to be your contribution towards the cost of keeping those children. Thus if you're having them for 2 weeks
you're incurring those costs yourself. Problem is it's not just food and soap you're paying for, it's keeping them in house
and clothes and other long term items so not paying her for 2 weeks could put her in debt (not being able to pay this month's mortgage etc).
Would paying half of what you normally pay be fair? Sounds fair to me cos it's not like you're going to have to shell out for clothes and
school trips and the like
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